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Why we Choose Natural Materials over Plastic

I was at a baby shower recently with my mom when another woman showed up with her grandkids and a small plastic children's computer game. We began talking and she asked if we had a similar toy. Before I could answer, my mom replied "No! She's a weirdo that won't let her kids have plastic!" Now, I don't mean to throw my mother under the bus for an off hand comment, but I think this is a common misconception for people looking at the Montessori community. So, let me explain why we choose natural materials over plastic and when we don't.



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First, I want to say, my children have plenty of plastic toys and materials. There are times, even, when I prefer plastic. One example, is animal figurines. I strive to give my children realistic representations and plastic is simply the best way to do this. Magnatiles and Legos also make my plastic list!

But, in many situations, I do strive to provide natural materials -- like wood, metal, fabric or glass -- when I can. 

What's the deal with no plastic?

I have a few reasons that I prefer natural materials over man-made ones. First, there is the environmental factor. There's BPA concerns and chemical concerns and its effect on our health and the environment. While, this is a concern, it's not a huge worry for me but I am aware of this issue. Maybe it should be something I worry more about, but it's not something I've done a lot of research into.

More important to me are the strictly Montessori concerns. First, I as a Montessori parent, I want to create an environment that is as beautiful as possible. I want to create spaces that show my children that they are valued. Montessori believes that children not only deserve beautiful spaces, they excel in them. Natural products are an important part in making our space beautiful.


Their understated nature and beauty provide something to an environment that cheaper plastic alternatives don't. Some plastic toys can provide the same effect, but they are harder to find. 

Natural materials teach natural consequences. If you drop a plastic cup, you drop a plastic cup. There's no need to be careful. No need to learn to respect the material. However, if you drop a glass cup, you get a very different story. Watching a glass break, or a toy even, teaches a child to be more exact and careful. But, it also teaches children to respect their materials and environment. To take ownership over it and to care for it.


Natural materials connect a person to nature. My children live in the city. Our natural interactions are more limited than others. By touching a wooden toy, they get to feel the warmth of the wood. They feel the grain, they feel the weight. It's just a connection that cold, hard plastic cannot provide.

Nora and Henry are using our Haba Marble Run.

Also, when I hand a child a beautiful natural material, I hand my child my respect and trust. I am showing them they are important enough to give them something real. I'm not giving them some baby-proofed version of a real tool. I'm teaching them to use a real one. I'm trusting in their abilities, I'm respecting their whole self as a very capable person.



I'm also giving them the opportunity to make a mistake. To learn from that mistake. When a plate shatters, there is a lot to be learned. When a toy breaks, there is a lot to be learned. I'm giving them the space and the trust to handle disappointment, mistake and error.

So, that's why we limit plastic in our home. If that makes me weird, I'm cool with that!

What is your plastic policy? Have you seen any difference with your child's interest in non-plastic verses plastic materials? 

If you liked this post check out: Purging the Baby Toys; Montessori at Home, How to Start


Comments

Audrey said…
Thank you for this! Just came home from the last of the Christmas shopping (I refuse to brave the stores in December!) and to say my shopping companion Evie (15 months) and I were inundated with plastic toys would be an understatement. I have up until very recently avoided Lego for Ted (3.5 years) as I much prefer our wooden selection of blocks, however have caved for this Christmas as I don't think we can avoid it forever ;) I like that he builds a city and it falls down, his Lego would fall over but not apart, less of a science experiment I think. This is especially important for Evie at this age, as she enjoys watching the tower come down. In the case of other toys, I purchased her a 2nd hand wooden doll cradle over the cheap plastic version as it is more beautiful - but the concession was the doll pram, I couldn't source an affordable wooden version so plastic will have to do. If it helps, I am the weirdo Mum that doesn't give my kids candy - if they get given sweets they know to take one out, then give the rest to me. But sugar is another story altogether...
Excellent post with awesome pictures and great ideas! Thank you Nicole!
Emily J
Beautiful words in a very interesting post! I totally agree with your vision and your mother's comment sounds so familiar to me! ;) But I keep on following my own path... Thanks for sharing your world with us in your blog.

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