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TAT: Confessions

Mom confessions? Yeah, I have a few of those:

  • Henry pronounces "cold" like "ho." I laugh every time. 
  • I swear, a lot. Even in front of Henry. 
  • A serious one. I'm sick of breastfeeding. Like, very over it. But, I feel way to guilty to stop. Also this probably deserves its own post. 
  • I let Henry watch TV a little more than I should. 
  • I feel more than a little pang of jealousy when I see pregnant strangers. I'm working on this. 
  • Henry knows his way around You Tube better than I do. 
  • I don't spend money on myself. I just don't. Nothing makes me feel more guilty
Do you have any mom confessions? Link up and share!



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Anonymous said…
Don't we all? :) Every mom has them - like letting the kids pick for themselves and eat dry cereal and leftover pizza for dinner because I'm still trying to finish the 2 week menu and grocery list.... or just throwing a towel over the wet spot on the little's bed instead of changing the sheets because it's the middle of the night and I'm really not awake enough to get the other girl off the bed that's still asleep, just to change sheets and start laundry! We all have them.... just keep them hiding in deep dark closets that only our husbands can see :sometimes: LOL :)
Steph K. said…
It would piss me off every time I saw someone pregnant before lk. FYI for some reason target is always overrun with them.
I don't spend money on myself either and I also let Carina watch too much TV ;)
Lindsay said…
I don't spend money on myself, either! When my clothes are literally falling apart and my husband all but forces me to go to the store, I feel so guilty even trying them on that sometimes I tear up! Argh.
SAH Attorney said…
I swear a lot in front of E too, oops! I really need to cut back!

I am also getting tired of breastfeeding, but would feel horrible just yanking it away from E cold-turkey. I would love to see a post on your thoughts on this!

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