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A Lesson in Following the Child -- Montessori Baby Week 22
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- Katrin said...
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Dear Nicole,
I'm sorry to hear that Gus has difficulties. I began researching Montessori (and stumbled over your blog in the process) because my son (now 20 months old) was born with a rare genetic condition and has "developemental delays" in several areas. For me it was (and still is) really though to see his peers develop in a much faster rate - but the Montessori philosophy really helped me to follow his pace. With success: after months of stagnation, he now crawls and pulls to standing (which he never did before) all at once!
I would love to hear your thoughts about how reconcile the Montessori way with therapy - for me it is one of the hardest things to do to make him do something in therapy he absolutely doesn't want to.
All the best to Gus, you and your family! Keep up hope! -
May 4, 2017 at 9:01 AM
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I'm so sorry to hear about the delays and I know how tough it can be as a parent when things are a little different than "average". One issue that we found has been linked to torticollus is a tongue tie. Have you looked into it? Many health care providers do not know how to diagnose a tongue tie and may even deny the impact that it can have, but it was a major factor in my son's development and ability to eat, settle, and sleep. Many kids with ties also find riding in car seats uncomfortable, dislike tummy time, etc. After months of issues, I looked into the symptoms of a tie and they matched what we were experiencing. I thought I'd suggest it in case it's helpful for you as you're looking at options for your son. Best of luck!
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May 4, 2017 at 12:13 PM
- Jeanne-Marie Paynel said...
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Gus is lucky to have you as his guide. Not sure if you saw this interview series "More than Milestones" http://bit.ly/2pTTPm5 It addresses exactly what you are talking about you might find some valuable information. With loving support.
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May 4, 2017 at 12:35 PM
- Kristin said...
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I love following along with Gus! My son had very severe torticollis to the point his pediatrician decided physical therapy was ineffectual and he needed some bodywork. He started seeing a craniosacral specialist at 3 months and by 1 year we just go in for check ups. She's one of his favorite people and we saw immediate improvement after one visit, and I'm amazed that you could barely tell he had had torticollis after two weeks. We're in Seattle and it took a very long wait time, plus I was very apprehensive about doing craniosacral therapy, but I'm so glad that we did it. Torticollis can affect vision (more than just not being able to track because of restricted movement). He was always a bit behind on gross motor, but made milestones eventually. We're at the point now (20 months) that he doesn't need anymore PT or craniosacral therapy, thankfully.
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May 4, 2017 at 4:54 PM
- Elizabeth said...
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Developmental delays are tough! My kids are exactly 3 years apart and it was so hard not to check back to see what my oldest was doing at the same age. My son also has low muscle tone and has been in PT for over a year. We started at 6 months when he wasn't sitting up in his own. Around 18 months he just suddenly developed by leaps and bounds! He's still behind (22m and not walking yet) but is steadily improving. I love reading your blog and your updates about Augustus. I didn't do Montessori with my son because I thought with his delays it wouldn't push him enough. I'm so glad to see how it's working for you! Makes me want to go back and start over with my son but tomorrow is a new day. Thanks for always being so positive and encouraging about the wonders of a Montessori child!
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May 4, 2017 at 6:25 PM
- tomasiadventures said...
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My daughter also had visual delays & sensory processing issues. Hers were a result of vaccine injury, a controversial a subject yes but a valid consideration. It turns out she has a genetic mutation called MTHFR which inhibits methylation.. use of Tylenol around vaccination plus recent antibiotics prescribed for an ear infection resulted in more profound injury than she might have experienced otherwise. I wish you the best on your journey with Gus. As a fellow Montessori teacher with a 5 month old infant (born quite close to Gus I think) it has been inspiring to follow your journey. Heather
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May 5, 2017 at 2:21 AM
- Every Star Is Different said...
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This brought me to tears. Oh how I have been where you have been so many times before. I applaud your courage and strength and your willingness to follow the child. <3 Many virtual hugs are being sent your way!
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May 7, 2017 at 11:41 PM